Well, lover girl! I doubt there's any lady who would claim she has never walked this path. On my end, I stopped acting brainless, fantasizing and seeking opinions from my people and books, to full-chestedly deciding to hand over my love and crush life to God. I shared every detail to the Holy Spirit, even when my heart was doing gbim gbim.

It wasn't easy, but I received sense and help from Him. Now, I don't have crush... I'm minding the Father's business, and other businesses entrusted to me till the real man comes.